Descriptions for heat levels in book list

------holding hands, perhaps a gentle kiss
♥♥ ---- more kisses but no tongue-- no foreplay
♥♥♥ ---kissing, tongue, caressing, foreplay & pillow talk
♥♥♥♥ --all of above, full sexual experience including climax
♥♥♥♥♥ -all of above including coarser language and sex more frequent

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

finding and loving someone

Sometimes I think romance, two people ever finding each other in this big world, is an almost mystical thing. How do we explain something like this:

Some say reality is different than fantasy-- sure it is-- until you listen to people talk about how they met and then you see the hand of fate so often.

Of course, romance isn't the end of the game. We fall in love and then life happens, we get busy, involved with the business of surviving in the world.
When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh.
That's the essence to find that romance which goes beyond. Romance novels aren't all that unrealistic. They end though before the real work begins :)

The creek is lush with green. The wood ducks have raised their ducklings, whether the raccoons and beaver have done likewise, we don't know-- can't have a wildlife cam everywhere. It is a wonderful time though these weeks before the Solstice.


Tabor said...

Oh yes, waiting for the link to the wildlife camera and the fox slides to work! I agree that romance is more deep and complicated than the run away together passion that starts it all. True romance is enduring and sacrificial and continually re-evaluating oneself.

Rain Trueax said...

You can't get YouTubes to work, Tabor? I will have to see if I can put these up somewhere in an album which seems to me to be getting harder to do as they keep 'improving' things.

Rain Trueax said...

I finally got them onto a slide show that doesn't move-- I hope. What a hassle but worth it for you, Tabor as I know your love of nature and photography -- Fox Album. I don't understand though why the YouTube failed to work for you. I thought you got YouTube but I know some do not have systems that make it work right. Anyway hope this helps :)